OK, right up front... not very smart on my part not to ask how to upgrade when the upgrade from 5.6.1.2 to 5.6.2.1 did not work as expected. It said something like I already had that directory (for the new upgrade) so I used Filezilla, looked and yes, there appeared to be two, so I deleted one... now I get this message when I try to get to the dashboard:

Warning: require(updates/concrete5.6.1.2_updater/concrete/dispatcher.php) [function.require]: failed to open stream: No such file or directory in /home/fefcwebadmin/faribaultefc/concrete/startup/updated_core_check.php on line 8

Fatal error: require() [function.require]: Failed opening required 'updates/concrete5.6.1.2_updater/concrete/dispatcher.php' (include_path='.:/usr/local/lib/php:/usr/local/php5/lib/pear') in /home/fefcwebadmin/faribaultefc/concrete/startup/updated_core_check.php on line 8

In short... HELP! Thanks everyone...